World Book Day and my very own Betty O’Barley

Last year, for World Book Day, the Girl went to school dressed up as her favourite character, Little Red Riding Hood. It was a costume that she had had since her birthday (her 3rd birthday had had a Little Red Riding Hood and the Three Little Pigs theme), and she looked absolutely lovely in it. However, as a newbie parent, I did not anticipate that there would be 2 other little girls dressed the same, nor that I would be in the least bothered by the fact that prizes were given, and that she (predictably enough!) would not get any… All of that came as a bit of a surprise (or even shock), so this year, I decided we would make more of an effort.

I wanted something that would be personal to us, and yet would be original and much less likely to have been chosen by other girls. Back in the autumn, we had gone to see the ‘Scarecrow’s Wedding’ show at the Arts Depot in North Finchley, and we loved it (they go on tour this summer, so it’s well worth going to see it – link here). The show was based on the book by Julia Donaldson, and this has been a great favourite for our story time ever since. So the Betty O’Barley costume seemed just perfect for us.

Luckily for me, I found a pink dress with white polka dots on eBay (incidentally, a brand new ex-label dress from Next). I bought some edging lace, a green neckerchief (try as I might, I couldn’t find a checkered one, so settled for paisley), some white cord and a yellow straw hat (very handy that Easter bonnets are available right now). I already had a knitted red poppy which I had made a couple of years ago for the girl to wear in her hair for Remembrance Sunday, so I sewed this onto the hat. A very dear friend who does patchwork and consequently has lots of random fabric helped me by sewing the two patches (one green, matching the neckerchief, and one yellow, which very handily matched the straw hat), and she also sewed the lace edging along the cuffs and the hem of the skirt. To finish off the outfit, I attached the cord around the cuffs and the midriff, sewing on little loops to hold it in place, and I put on a piece of thin elastic strap to keep the hat on the Girl’s head. On the day, I combed her hair into two plaits (I thought cutting it into the shorter mop that Betty O’Barley has in the illustration would be going a step too far…).

Here is the finished product:

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She really was the most adorable scarecrow I had ever seen, and – to make it all even better – she won third prize for her costume, and she was so happy about that! From my perspective, the best thing about it all was that her costume had been made just for her, with love, that I and my amazingly kind friend had both put in effort because we care about her and wanted her to know that and feel special … but winning is rather nice too! 🙂

New beginnings

Wow! I cannot believe it has been almost 5 months since I last updated my blog. Clearly, motherhood has been more about doing than about writing about it (although, truth be told, I have been doing a lot of thinking and reading about it recently). When I started the blog back in the summer, the plan was to make it a regular thing, and to document my experience of being a mother of two, my struggles with parenting, the big learning curve I feel I am on… There are so many things which have fallen by the wayside because I didn’t write about them when the time was right.

  • For instance, my decision to give up anger for Lent (let’s face it, giving up chocolate is obsolete and unnecessary, and besides, chocolate is much better at helping to feel better than yelling at your kids could ever be!) – and, related to that, my thoughts on the parenting books I have been reading and my decision to become a peaceful parent (cf. this very interesting AHAParenting website, owned by Dr Laura Markham, whom I also follow on Facebook).
  • Or my daily struggles with an ever-more-mobile-and-more-inquisitive baby, the mind-numbing experience that is staying at home with a baby who cannot talk, being locked in just one room with him because any other room in the house is not sufficiently baby-proof (or Boy-proof, rather…).
  • Or my incredibly conversations with my ever-more-intelligent-and-thoughtful little Girl (soon to be 5… where does time fly?!?).

I hope to write about all of these things retrospectively, and I will also attempt to update my blog a lot more regularly. For the moment, I will try to come back here once a week – and saying this will hopefully commit me to being consistent!

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